Pondering G4P

I was recently asked to comment on this!

If I could ask for a topic to be addressed in an upcoming blog post, I'd love to hear your take on G4P actors. For me, I actually hate it when sites like Chaos Men stress how 'straight' the guys are in an effort to make them more attractive. I had to unfollow one porn actor on Twitter because he just got too adamant about how straight he is- never mind that he's on Sketchy Sex taking dozens of loads in both holes. But I'm curious as to what you think- not just filming with them, but also how they impact the gay porn industry. If, you know, you're taking requests, lol....
 

So this is my response.
 

So here is what I think. Unless your actually get into gay sex you should not be doing gay porn. For example Andrew Stark really likes gay sex. He just isn’t into having a relationship with a guy. Most straight men who do gay porn are pretty but they are so uncomfortable the scenes the scenes turn out horrid. Best example is Leo Giamani. I think he is super fucking hot but he is horrid to watch. Not to mention that he owes studios money. He would ask for a huge amount upfront to do a scene and then bail and never show up. Kind of a huge douche bag but hey, straight guys think they can get away with tons of shit. Not to mention he gave the owner of a studios info out to a debt collector. So the debt collector is harassing the wrong person.

A lot of straight men go into gay porn because gay porn pays more than straight porn for the male actors. As well as gay porn studios treats men better then straight porn studios. But G4P actors don’t treat gays usually any better than they did before. So why do we use them? Is there any benefit to them being around? Nothing really is coming to mind. Unless I wanted to do something that doesn’t involve gay people or a bar. Again this doesn’t not apply to all but the majority it does. I have met enough to know they are as useful to my existence as herpes is. I don’t have herpes but comparing them to it is easy. I don’t have it or need it just like I don’t have straight people in my life and I sure as hell don’t need them either.

So as gay men yes the doing a straight guy can be hot (but it is not a turn on for me though). We, should look at where the money is going. Do they support the gay community? NO! Do they pay our bills? NO! Do they help us out in any actually productive way? NO! (And don’t think for a second helping you cum is a productive sense) So why should we as a gay community help them out. They don’t do anything for us but they do just take and take. So they are in a sense leeches. This doesn’t mean all of them are but for the most part the majority are. How often do you see them in our community just hanging out with us? Rare and usually it’s when they are getting paid to do so. So again why should we support people like that?

So it is time to actually give back to the gay community. As viewers and as performers. I volunteer and go out of my way to do fundraisers that give back. What as a gay man have you done for your community lately? Think outside the box and try to have it not involve the usual crap that people in our society are judged upon!